yesterday 16/6/09
ex-pt 2 daughters came up to the ward to visit..
came to find me
told me a shocking news



their mother passed away last week
i kinda shock seriously
i tot their mother was re-admitted again...
but when they told me that their mom had passed away
i felt the tinge of sadnes
the kind of sadness that i couldnt describe myself..

i like that pt
she is a very nice lady
of a beautiful heart
have empathy
she is a great mother!
she has 2 filials daughters, who supported her through her illness, take turns to take care of their mother till wee hrs in hospital

she has brought up her daughters into such fine young ladies! =)
i admire her!
her daughters loves their mom so so so much ,
to the extend to help tink of ways and means to really take aways all the pain from the mom
hoping that their mom will be freed from all pains and suffering
its easier to say it out , but their actions showed it to me..
they are really closely bonded mother &daughters!

the pt really stand at our positions (nurses perspective) to look at things
she protected us..
she almost cried when another pt relative crititise us, scolded us..
she asked me 1 thing," why the other pt's relative keep scolding us? u all nurses are already done all ur best already, its not ur fault, why keep scolding u all? i hear already heart very painful" "u all nurses need to take care of so many pts , are already so tiring, yet she keep scolding u all"

when i heard it, i felt like tearing..
i felt so lucky to be able to meet a pt like her
she is so forgiving kind, she doesnt like to trouble others
she makes us nurses feel like the KINDEST SOUL~
she loves us too!

heard that she almost passed away in alot of pain, but lucky she was given the painkiller infusion to ease her pain to let her go in peace..

thank god!

and the daughters showed me the pictures of her in peace at the very last moments of hers
hope that she relieved from all the pain she suffered from the cancer
now she is in a new place
a peaceful place...
rest in peace...

and also will pray that the daughters will be able to move on , get over the griefing period..
and moved on to new lives, but their mother will always live in their-our hearts!


thank you! for making me being a nurse worthwhile...
thanks for the thank you card! =D

*Loves!*